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DBSK2's Yuhno looking scandalously sexy for "Catch Me" promotions
Note: Ranting. This girl tends to go off topic when upset. To visually spruce up this post, I've included screenshots from DBSK5's "Wrong Number" MV to relay my message.
I understand that K-Pop artists are held under a different standard regarding their public etiquette. They are in the spotlight on a daily basis, so it's only natural that they always try to uphold a certain reputation. Despite this, I find that Netizens (internet + citizens) and fans are becoming increasingly more critical of their artists. Whatever their expectations are of their idols, it's becoming ridiculous. They are still people, they still make mistakes, and sometimes when they get 2 hours of sleep on an already off week, it's only expected that they may make an off comment or action.
How stressed are they really? How would you feel if had daily schedules filled with recording, vocal practice, dance practice, live performances, radio appearance, reality show appearances, MC duties, as well as a drama filming on the side? Maybe you're also traveling back and forth from Japan, Taiwan, Thailand and Malaysia for mini-concerts while simultaneously learning the language. In addition, what if your sleep schedule ranged anywhere from 2-6 hours scattered whenever available throughout the day, and your eating routine is dictated by your entertainment company, who insists you diet to stay thin?
So say, if you get a little aggressive during a variety show (A-Pink's Eunji on '1000 Song Challenge'), make a face when a professional host asks your members if you are "two-faced" (F(x)'s Krystal, or have a drunken actress slung on your arm trying to kiss you after drinks, (Big Bang's Seungri and the Anna Kubo Scandal), then it should be expected that you are going to react in some way. The sad part is, even if you bite your tongue, even the smallest expression of displeasure can be captured on camera, and the next moment, that small bite on your tongue is blown up to huge proportions with article headlines like, "Group A's Member X Shows Bad Attitude."
There should be a limit to what can be criticized. If someone states something that is potentially harmful or physically hurts someone, it's okay to criticize them. But if they really try to say what they think without harmful intentions, let them say it without judging them for saying something (that may not be positive). Also, lighten up, people. Not everything needs to be conservative, prude and proper. Fans like interesting people who can integrate humor and laughter into their every day lives. Very often, a joke can be taken the wrong way, (Teen Top's C.A.P.'s shocking comment) and the media will instantly jump on that person's throats. Take a moment to fish out the truth from different sources. When all else fails, take their apology when given, and consider it their lesson learned. Otherwise, it'll only create unwarranted damage.
It's also very lame to criticize artists or groups based entirely on another group. I understand that some fans feel disgruntled when another group beats out their group for music program wins or general popularity, but it's not fair to bash them without checking out their work. Consider individual group talents, genre, and see what they offer. Don't bash groups in comparison to other groups unless it serves as an example to how they either have no talent or consistently do something wrong. Though I am also biased and believe certain groups deserve more recognition than others, I can't deny that Group X is doing well because they have worked their butts off, put in an X number of years actively promoting, and have achieved it all despite the scrutiny of the public eye.
It doesn't matter how much an artist or their company pisses you off, it is not okay to perform public acts of violence. It may seem like a harmless, childish thing to do, but throwing eggs is an act of violence. If you're throwing anything at anyone or attempt to physically or mentally hurt them, that is abuse. (I'm referring specifically to the protestors who threw eggs at the Core Contents Media building under the T-ara/Hwayoung bullying rumors). That type of response has no positive effect, doesn't help anyone, and can only further escalate the situation.
Also, just because an artist chooses to be in the media does not mean they belong to anyone, and especially not owned by their fans. For example, fan girls will constantly beech out about their idol oppas even being on the same show as another girl- that's ridiculous. If they happen to like her, so what? It's not like you directly control their life- they probably don't even know you exist. Secondly, they probably won't engage in a relationship anyways, because it's not beneficial for their career. Thirdly? It's JUST A SHOW. Or a collaboration. Or even a coincidence meeting caught on the same tape. If they have sex and one-night stands, so what? They lead hectic, fast-paced lifestyles that may require quick stress release. If they are depressed or go insane from lack of relief outlets, you lose out as a fan. Judge all you want and just stop following them. Don't go around writing hate messages anywhere you can comment and start an online war. Burn their CD, whatever. Blog it out. Let it blow over. Most importantly, love your artists for the person they work to portray, instead of criticize them for the stuff they can't help but be intruded upon.
Read the original allkpop articles below:
Big Bang's Seungri Caught with Anna Kubo:
http://www.allkpop.com/2012/09/big-bangs-seungri-caught-with-modelactress-anna-kubo-by-paparazzi-in-hong-kong
Big Bang's Seungri Alleged Sex Scandal:
http://www.allkpop.com/2012/09/big-bangs-seungri-caught-up-in-sex-scandal-rumors-after-release-of-pictures-by-japanese-tabloid-friday
http://www.allkpop.com/2012/09/big-bang-fans-step-up-to-argue-seungris-photos-were-manipulated
A-Pink's Eunji's 'Rude' Behavior:
http://www.allkpop.com/2012/09/a-pinks-eunji-apologizes-for-rude-behavior-in-1000-song-challenge
http://www.allkpop.com/2012/09/producer-shin-won-ho-of-reply-1997-defends-a-pinks-eunji
F(x)'s Krystal Under Fire for Attitude:
http://www.allkpop.com/2012/06/fxs-krystal-once-again-under-fire-for-her-attitude
Teen Top C.A.P.'s Shocking Comment:
http://www.allkpop.com/2012/01/teen-top-caps-controversial-comment-shocks-netizens